Mike & Mandy Loving Life
Thursday, April 1, 2010
One more week!
I know you're all thinking I'm crazy but it's fun to have something to look forward to every year. Maybe someday Augusta National will call and ask me to use my photography skills to take pictures at the tournament! Or of their members! I'm sure I could do some pretty sweet portraits! ha ha!! Someone pinch me!
I hope all of you have a chance to sit down and watch some of the tournament this year! If you want to come by and watch with me that's ok too!
Mike
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Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Flip Flop's Bed
Sunday, September 20, 2009
A Not So Restful Sunday
These Sundays are always hard for me and I wish I could stay home with my wonderful wife.
I'll be back on Friday and do this all again next Sunday. Sigh.
Monday, September 7, 2009
A New Beginning
Ahhh, where to begin? I find that I don’t have adequate words to describe how I am feeling. Maybe it is because I have not used them to describe my own life in so long. Or maybe it is that I never experienced them in this way? Regardless of what the reason is, I can only try to describe this new part of my life the best I know how. By using over the top words and actions, with slight exaggerations and complete and total abandonment to the events as they happened. I am still a Pierce despite the sign on my classroom door that reads Mrs. Fiechtner with an additional Mrs. Feekner logo (my feeble attempt to have my name pronounced correctly), and a Pierce always embellishes for effect.
I have to admit, as a girl who is never at a loss for words, never one to appear uncomfortable in a social situation and always quick to put on the façade of perfection, the last year and half have been the most difficult time of my life. And to be able to emerge from that with a new hope brings so much joy to my heart I feel as though people might begin to stare at all of the extra oozing out in my smile and demeanor. And although I am still very beaten and battered from the events that I never go a day without thinking about, I finally feel like instead of new blows I am being given the chance to heal. Slow as it may be, I know in my heart that this job is going to play a big part in making those wounds less painful. And in some way I feel as though this is God’s sign to me that he can create great things out of horrible situations. I think the moment of greatest emotion came for me when I was putting the final touches on my room. As anyone who knows me can tell you, the one thing in this world I am most proud of is my family, and so of course I needed to get pictures of them up for all to see. As I hung those pictures in my room I knew without a shadow of doubt that this new road that God was taking me on was going to be a success. Because with a family like mine behind me how could I possibly fail. As I hung the picture of my Grandpa Jim, I saw so clearly the collision of two paths, one of sorrow and pain crashing into one of hope and promise. And in that moment I could feel my grandpa telling me, “I am so proud of the new path you are about to walk down, and I will be with you every step of the way.”
So here I stand at the end of week one. Not blind to the struggles that face me nor standing in a pool of naiveté thinking that it is always going to be this easy. It is just me standing at the beginning of a new road, treading lightly toward the light of hope that this new journey brings. Fully aware that it is not the job that will change my life but the life giving gift of me welcoming God’s presence back into the journey. And although I know I will look back from time to time, it will be out of love not pain.
And just to spice things up, (I wouldn’t want to let the greatest story teller of all time down by not throwing in a bit of humor and exaggeration).
4. Having one of my middle school students tell me my name was spelled wrong in the syllabus, (she really bought into the phonetic spelling, its spelled Fiechtner, not Feekner).
3. Blindfolding my students and letting them draw sound, all in the name of art of course.
2. Being initiated as a new teacher at our all school retreat. I was asked to describe my first time eating a candy cane, but the students were told I was describing my first kiss.
1. Getting to share my job as a teacher, with the one person who has been my biggest supporter through the good and the bad of getting to this point. Mike made an amazing teacher, and the kids loved hearing about his amazing photography!
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Is it really that hard?
Here's a recent funny story, the person at the drycleaners couldn't spell our name right so I handed him my driver's license to show him and now I will always be known at this dry cleaners as "Mr. Fiechma" because he just copied my driver's license number which includes the first five letters in your last name and the first initial for your first and middle names or MA for Michael Allen. I'm glad all of my dress shirts now have FIECHMA printed on them.
Having a confusing last name is a blessing and a curse. Here are just a few positives and negatives to having a unique last name. If you have a unique last name I'm sure you can relate:
Positive:
1. You always knew when your name would be called during roll call at school on the first day. It would go something like this, "Ellis, Everett, Fffff........." and I would chime in "Here! It's pronounced Fiechtner (you idiot)"
2. You know when a solicitor is calling on the home phone. Solicitor: "Is Mrs. Fiechtner (mispronounced) home?" Me: "No" CLICK.
3. Easier to Google yourself
4. Easy to find Usernames on websites that work. Most of the time mfiechtner or something similar is available. You'll never see me with johnsmith26@gmail.com or something like that.
5. Easy to find family history on the internet
6. People will be more likely to remember you
7. You can get a good laugh at Safeway when they try to pronounce your name when handing you the receipt. You either get the person that will try to pronounce it, the person that looks at the receipt confused and muffles their voice attempting to pronounce it cause they have no clue or the person that just looks at the receipt and looks up and says "thanks."
Negative:
1. People can't seem to find your reservation that you made. Go back to all the different spellings and try each until you find the right one.
2. Constantly having to repeat it and getting that "What the hell did you say?" look from people.
3. Mandy has to decide how to present herself in her new class. It may end up being just Mrs. F. Anyone have a suggestion?
4. Microsoft Word says that it's mispelled in all of my documents.
5. Your true friends still can't pronounce it or spell it.
Having a last name like Fiechtner has presented many challenges in my life but overall I'm happy with the name and I will be proud to pass it down to my children. I will always remind them how to say it just like my grandpa Verne would say it, with a true German accent (make sure you almost spit when saying it).
I will always love being a Fiechtner!
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Move or no move?
The other idea we've had is remodeling our house a little. If you've been in our house we are thinking about tearing down the wall and pantry between our living room and kitchen which would open things up quite a bit. We'd also like to potentially add something to the front of the house. Not sure if that would be an additional room where our right driveway is or some kind of porch and additional peak in our roof at our front door. We just don't like the look of our "box" of a house.
What do you guys think?
If you haven't already done so, please go and check out my photo blog or flickr site!
Friday, June 26, 2009
Feekner photo
Also, if you can't figure it out, feekner is phonetically how you say our last name. Well maybe not the true German way but it's how I pronounce it!
Here is a taste of my flickr site and some of the photos I've been taking. You can never have too much of the Masters and Augusta National.
Have a nice weekend!